Just another day

Well, I managed to get out of the house today and walked around the market. I felt as if I was developing bed sores:) so it was good to get out even though it was bone chilling cold!! The good news is that Ryan takes off for home in the morning, good for him at least. The Dehanns and I are on the verge of insanity, I have managed to watch all three seasons of Lost, so far, pretty pathetic if you ask me but I have to do something.   All I can do is laugh;)!!!
Oleg was in such an amazing mood these past days, I like to think it is because he knows that soon he will be with mama and papa FOREVER. Today I had my first moment of mother lion protecting her young. I managed to get upset with one of the doctors at the orphanage. She was insisting that it was way to cold for him to be out of his room even though we were still inside, and I had no problem with that. I was glad to take him back to his room, however, he needed to pack up his toys and I needed to get all my stuff ready before I could get him back. I was putting on my coat when the doctor returned and garbed Oleg's hand and started to take him back, he was crying, and it made me so mad that she couldn't wait 5 sec for me to finish. I proceeded to run over there yelling NEYT (NO) and I took his hand and led him back to his room, I told her (not that she understood) that I was his mother and I would take him back to his room!! he stopped crying and gave me a big smile, he knows that mommy takes him back and that is the way he likes it.
He has been able to talk with Ryan on the phone and that has been really cute. He repeats what I say so he told Ryan that he missed him and loved him!! We also met this family from Spain a very nice couple and we have enjoyed their company. They are adopting this sweet little boy with a cleft pallet, Him and Oleg get along really well, and the couple is just so sweet, so it has been fun sharing the room with them. one more day and he is ours for good, that is if nothing goes wrong!! I am trying to stay optimistic but we will see!! Keep praying and I love you all!!

 My first Ukrainian snowfall. this is the outside of our apartment.
Oleg loves that cell phone now!! it is hard to get it away from him!!

On my own

Sorry that I have not posted in a few day but to be honest it was for the best! If I was to post a few days ago, I would have vomited all my frustration and no one would enjoy this blog anymore!!  so now I have a battle raging inside of myself. I want so badly to get up in the morning excited to cease the day, but I find myself sad, I feel like it is just one thing after another. If I have to hear one more time oh you need to pay for this I might just go postal. I am trying so hard not to feel overwhelmed or scared but I am not feeling so optimistic. Just when I think ok, no more it is going to be smooth sailing form here and it's not. Ryan and I were not allowed to exchange our tickets till the 16th of January ARE YOU KIDING!! We had to make the executive decision and Ryan is going home on the 14th of December and I had to buy a new ticket, so Ryan and I ate $1000 bucks.  I should be Happy despite our set backs, if Paul can remain in Christ locked up in jail, I should be able to see what an amazing miracle this whole process is. I really can't see it, I am certain I will soon. For now I will just keep on keeping on. unbeknownst to us Ryan had to sign papers at the embassy before he left so we franticly had to get him on a train to get back to Kiev so he could sign 2 forms, silly really as we always thought that sense I was the primary on the INS paperwork that my signature was the only one needed (just another example of uncertainties). Now he sits in Kiev and waits to leave for home on Monday.  I miss him and Oleg was very sad today that papa was not there. When I first go there tonight Oleg started yelling for papa it was so sweet, Ryan did call and Oleg was able to talk with Ryan on the phone, even though we had no idea what he was saying. on a lighter note Oleg is starting to repeat the English words that we are teaching him, the one he knows without prompting is banana he loves bananas. He knows please and thanks you, goodbye, hello, and up, I do believe that he will catch on fast. Please keep every adoptive family in your prayers we are ALL struggling and we ALL need the prayer!!
Here is a picture of us entertaining ourselves with a monopoly game we got in a happy meal at MacDonalds, pathetic really. This was the night we attempted to make Fettuccine Alfred but sweet cream was bought instead of cream it was not that good but we ate it anyway and imagined that it was the really deal. 

 here are some picks of our little bugger!!!!

the Dehanns and I went and got lunch a this turkish burrito place, they are sooooo good and the cook was sooo nice gave me a big hug and he took a picture with me, made me realize that my frustration here is not the people, just the system could be better. I promise I will post more!! I love you all!!!

Monday Monday

So today was just another exciting day in the Ukraine.  We went to change our flight home and the long and short of it is we are on the waiting list for flights out of here.  Hopefully if that works out we will come home on the 19th or 20th.  If not I may be coming home on the 14th so that we don't totally lose our tickets and Tabitha and Oleg will come home on new tickets on the 19th or 20th with a different airline.  The reason for all of this is because the type of ticket we have is limiting and all the flights that we can transfer to directly are fully booked until January 19.  That is way too long for us to stay so we are looking for alternatives to get us all home. But it will work out.  Lufthansa is looking for alternative solutions and we should know if there are any in the next two to three days.  The good news is that Oleg is well and he is learning a little English.  He can now say goodbye, hello, up and banana.  Pretty good overall.  He listens ok and he seems to be learning how to deal with us and what behaviors are acceptable.  He is a very spirited and a little rambunctious but he is also very affectionate and always thrilled to see us when we show up.  So we are getting closer all the time to bringing Oleg home.  Honestly, coming home can't happen too soon.  Being away from home is starting to wear on us.  We will be fine but we miss the way things are at home.  We miss our beds and food and really all the stuff that we normally do.  We are excited that we are down to under two weeks left in the Ukraine. Then we will be home finally after 6 weeks in country and almost two years since we began.  We miss all of you.  I am trying to get some more videos up but I am having trouble getting them uploaded.  Here are some more pictures of Oleg.  Talk to you soon.

Oleg loves bananas but eats a little too much at a time. Here is his face stuffed full.

 

 

Playing cars with momma on the floor.  He actually sat still for like 20 minuets, miracle!!

Update

I know some of you have asked what next, well for now we sit and wait for 10 days before we can take him out of the orphanage and he is ours for good! then to Kiev and the US embassy to get the paperwork done and hopefully home, however,  the struggles never end we are having a very hard time figuring out the flight, sense we changed it once we can not change it again, so we have to go into the Lufthansa office and plead that they let us change the tickets. We are already looking at empty wallets, and just to get home before Christmas will cost us an arm and a leg but if we have to buy one ways that will just be too much. Like I sad last night this journey is just so uncertain!!  Again we hang onto hope that it will all workout, all we can do is laugh.....
Please pray the the Lufthansa office will have an open heart!! We love you all!!

Court and now we wait

We went to court today, and it went well. It really was no big deal but still nerve wrecking. Court was at 10  and we were picked up at 9 and  I had ten min to get ready. we headed to to the orphanage to start with and then to the court house. The best part of the experience except for of course making it all official is trying to figure out the court system it truly looks like a mess! there are no signs and tons of people just walking in and out of rooms, Ryan and I spent a good 30 min trying to find the rhyme and reason but as far as we could see there is non, at least to us foreigners.  Nothing fancy but here is a pic at court.

Ryan and I had a small break down last night we want to be home so I told him we needed to list 5 things that we love about Donets'k first of course being Oleg, that aside our 5 things we love: cheap beer, great milk, awesome juice, organized grocery stores, and cheese!!! That seemed to make us feel better, our journey is coming to an end but not at fast as we wished, it seems as if we will miss our travel date a week so we will be here a total of 6 weeks, we hope no longer. A recent blog we read was talking about the uncertainty we face here in the Ukraine, there is just so much that is out of our control!! if you want a lesson on faith and trusting God alone, do a Ukraine adoption :) but we have no complaints we have learned so much about ourselves, each other, our family, and our faith that we have been blessed to struggle through this!! It is only a small cross to bare. For now we are enjoying the journey, not only our journey but the Dehanns it is like watching a sappy life time movie, just when they seem to give up God intervenes and keeps the ball rolling and though the boy has not said yes they are doing everything!! even the stuff that we could not think of, only God could open those doors, it is so cool to see. Keep praying it is working!! here are some pictures of the market and of course Oleg.

have a blessed day we love you all so very much!

Pictures and Pictures

Here are some more pictures of Oleg and us.

 

So we will see him again tonight then we are going to the big soccer match at 8.  Looks like the internet is working again so we will keep you updated on how court goes tomorrow at 10am.  Talk to you soon.

Still truckin

Sorry you haven't heard from us in a few days we again do not have internet and we have to go to the internet cafe where it smells like smoke, yuck but I know that you are all patiently waiting for us to write on the blog. We have had a great few day seeing Oleg in the morning and night, the morning is so hard cause he really wants to be with his friends playing. They do fun activities in the morning and he runs back to the room wanting to join. So Ryan and I decided that we would just see him in the evening. when we see him in the evening he is in such an amazing mood and just tonight he has started giving us the biggest kisses. It is so cute and we love him so very much. We did get some more pictures including a family picture but of course I grabbed the wrong cord for the camera, yuck!!  I am loosing my mind.  We want to go home so bad, but beside Oleg, of course, our saving grace has been the Dehaans. I truly don't know what we would do without them. Our days pretty much consist of Oleg, season 1 of Lost and dinner with the Dehaans. Each day we spend with him is so amazing, we are learning so much about him, we learned how to stop his fits. It is pretty funny really that we find enjoyment in getting him to stop throwing a fit!! it's the small things!! he is Just so full of energy and go, go, goes, and he hates the word no but what toddler doesn't. He loves to fly like super man and love to listen to music he walks down the hall dancing, stinking cute. 

We are scheduled for court on Friday, it's good, it is still this week but we will not be able to get him out of the orphanage on his birthday, we will be getting him out on the 15th, but that is better than waking another week so no complaints. 

The Dehaans are patiently waiting and hoping that Sergei, the boy, says yes but at this point he is still saying no. Both of our hearts are breaking for them, we so desperately want it to work out for them, but it is very hopeful that at least they will bring the girl home!!  Please, Please, Please pray like you have never prayed before!!! Sergei needs a good home and we just hope that he sees that the Dehaans can provide that for him and his sister. They have one more day to convince him, so as they put it, it is go time!! Please when you wake today pray all day, that our amazing Lord will move this boys heart!! 

thanks we love you!!!